A wise man adapts himself to circumstances, as water shapes itself to the vessel that contains it. – Chinese Proverb
You go to bed and in the morning get up and see everything changed around. It’s been rearranged, in the night. All of it. That’s the deal for every living one of us. I’m certain it’s beautiful, I’m certain it’s ineluctable. I’m even convinced it’s the expression of genius on the job. Genius! But for me, it’s spooky, unbearable, incoherent, theft. Life’s a war zone. Death’s the sanctuary. You want to be safe? Or in unspeakable disarray? These are the bleatings of an old man who just seeks to get older and be left alone while he’s trying to do it. Words from 82-year-old Gordon Lish in the Paris Review.